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3 Ways To Handle Holiday Stress During Covid

Whether we spend the holidays together or alone, they will undoubtedly be a different kind of holiday season this year. Even under normal circumstances the holidays can be a difficult time for people. It can either bring a sense of excitement and joy or create anxiety, stress, and dread and sometimes it’s a little bit of everything!

Because this holiday season may bring new challenges like not being able to gather with a large group of friends and family, they will be more important than ever to think about what you will need to cope through it now, rather than waiting until you are in the midst of it.

Anticipating the holidays can create an opportunity for hard emotions to grow, making it more challenging to think clearly and cope effectively at the moment. Coming up with coping skills and practicing them ahead of time will help you move through any challenge more smoothly when it presents itself. Here are 3 ideas to help:

1. Keep traditions alive while you’re apart, or start new ones virtually

If you and your loved ones have holiday traditions or are interested in trying something new, now is the time to get creative! Perhaps everyone could make the same meal or side dishes and virtually eat together, or you can research virtual games to play and make sure everyone is set up on the tech side in advance. Of course, it won’t be the same as your in-person tradition, but you can still be with your loved ones, have some fun, and feel connected. Maybe you’ll even start a new trend you can bring to future in-person gatherings.

2. Keep faith in the power of structure

Regardless of whether you relish the upcoming family time, dread the impending togetherness, or plan to spend the holidays alone, structure can be a best friend to you during this season. That’s because having structure allows us to focus on the task at hand. Knowing what is coming next helps manage feelings of uncertainty, loneliness, and anxiety so we can stay present.

Start thinking about your structure now by creating a list of activities you could do on those quiet days when you might be feeling more vulnerable. Maybe you could go for a walk, make your favorite meal, bake, read for enjoyment, FaceTime loved ones, or create a movie or book list. These are just a few suggestions to get you started!

You don’t have to pack your schedule, but having one or two tasks, fun items, or even chores each day will help you manage your mood more effectively.

3. Keep it simple

You don’t need to plan a grand gesture to cope ahead. Small skills can make a big impact. When practiced over time, your mind will learn to rely on these calming practices, so in times of stress, those same simple skills can help improve your mood.

For example, you could curl up in a comfortable blanket, make tea, eat something you enjoy, light a scented candle or spray a scent that you like, or go for a walk and notice what you see and what you hear.

You could also listen to a podcast or audiobook, take a hot shower or bath, clean a section of your room or home, do laundry, meet a friend for a socially distant walk, or write postcards to snail mail to your loved ones. Practicing one small skill each day will not only help improve your mood, but it can also become a part of your daily structure!

Whatever you choose to do this holiday season, creating a plan to deal with possible anxiety or even just a list of possible strategies can help you prepare for any potential challenges. So create your COVID-19 holiday coping plan now—give yourself some things to look forward to!

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A transplant from the Pacific Northwest, Emilie has first-hand knowledge of the ins-and-outs of first-time home ownership and remodel. She has become involved in the local art community and all the diversity Southern California has to offer.

Emilie’s passion to be involved in her community led her to become a licensed Realtor and Broker.  She continues to educate herself with different aspects of real estate to support clients with a variety of needs.  She is certified as a Military Relocation Professional (MRP) to work with U.S. Service families and veterans to find affordable housing solutions.

Having worked for both a small boutique firm and a company with a global presence, in 2023 she formed Emilie Broughton Real Estate to work with buyers, sellers, landlords and tenants in California and New Mexico.

Emilie represented her region as a California Real Estate State Director for three years.  She has served as President of the Pasadena Foothills Association of Realtors and is a seven-time recipient of the Five-Star Real Estate Professionals Award for the outstanding service she provides to her clients.

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